Many species on Earth can carry up to two different versions of a given gene, with each of these 'alleles' having only a 50/50 chance of being transmitted to the next generation via sexual reproduction. Certain 'selfish' sequences, however, can hijack this process and increase their probability of being passed on to an offspring. Known as transmission distortion, this phenomenon may result in alleles spreading through the population even if they are detrimental to fertility. Transmission distortion has been detected in many species such as flies, mice and some plants. It can take place at various stages during reproduction; for example, the selfish alleles may become overrepresented among eggs or sperm. However, scientists need to study a large number of offspring or reproductive cells to be able to detect whether an allele is inherited more often than expected. This has made it difficult to determine whether transmission distortion also happens in humans, and research so far has resulted in conflicting conclusions. A recently published dataset of human sperm from 25 donors offered Carioscia, Weaver et al. the opportunity to examine this question. Every volunteer had produced between 969 and 3377 sperm cells, each with about 1% of their genome sequenced. Carioscia, Weaver et al. developed a computational method, which they named rhapsodi, that allowed them to 'fill in the gaps' and infer missing regions of the genome for each cell. To do so, they relied on the fact that sperm cells from a given individual are highly related to one another. With this more complete data at hand, it became possible to look for evidence of transmission distortion by searching for alleles that were overrepresented in sperm from a given donor. No selfish sequence could be detected in any of the 25 individuals, suggesting that human sperm may not be subject to pervasive transmission distortion. Signatures of selfish alleles detected in previous human studies may have therefore not resulted from this mechanism taking place at the sperm level. Instead, transmission distortion in humans could primarily target eggs or happen at later stages (for instance, if embryos carrying the selfish allele have better chances of survival). The 'rhapsodi' method developed by Carioscia, Weaver et al. should allow other scientists to work with datasets for which large portions of the genetic information is missing. It may therefore become easier for researchers to track selfish alleles which are difficult to detect, and to examine bigger, more diverse samples which also include individuals with known fertility challenges.